I counsel women who are about to be married to really look into their souls for the reasons. Search not your heart, but your soul. This is a life changer for you, and the person you are about to marry. Things will not be the same as before. Your status as ONE life will change, and you will never be certain the journey your heart will take. ONE heart makes decisions that will have a consequence for all of those around them.
Hearts may grow or break from One action, based on so many things. Center yourself, and be whole before you decide to take another heart on your life's journey. Being careful is only the beginning warning I can offer. Being thoughtful is the next step. Every action you take in life will alter it, like a drop of water in a pond. Life is therefore like filling a pond. You will look back in years to come and see the ripples your decision made. Some of them will be good. Others will be as diasterous as a tsunami.
Looking back at my 'Pond of the Past,' I see where ONE action many times was the most crucial deciding factor in how my life is today. Something's once done, cannot be undone...ever. The Pond of Life is meant to be filled, so step bravely after you have made your decision, and be prepared to accept the consequences. For karma, whatever yours will be, is the result of the effect of your ripples meeting those of others around you.
Becareful and Be ONE first, and know what this means before you become two.
Too often people who have had their moment in life for that ONE action, find it hurts more than they ever could have imagined. They wallow in self pity, remorse and anger. This action is a vexation to the heart, mind and soul. Be prepared to except the consequences of your actions and move on in life. Too often humans tend to get mired in the 'Pond of the Past', spending countless years of self destruction. I tell my own children who are now grown, that I will step back into their ponds, if it is for healing. However wallowing in remorse and regret for too long results only in a drowning victim. You must learn to step out of the past and live life anew each and every day of your life. Yes, you will make new drops in your life pond. Learn from the past, and go forward with all the confidence your heart can hold.